Most people have sexual fantasies that they daydream about. For some who are bold enough to try, it may, or may not have been THE experience of a lifetime, for others, these fantasies stay locked up where they feel most safe, their minds. But of what use is a fantasy if you don’t get to live it?
That’s your bucket list.
Sure, sex on the beach sounds nice, but how exactly would you know what that feels like if you don’t do it? Here’s a hint, the sand get’s in your butt and could become low-key annoying. At some point, you need to say “F it”, and intentionally seek out whatever sexual experience you’ve always dreamed of… in a safe manner of course. You’re going to feel amazing and you’ll definitely have stories to tell your friends, and your kids (if you decide to have them) when they’re a bit older(if you’re that sort of parent). Most importantly, you’ll never have to ask yourself that dreaded question, “what if?”.
It goes without saying, that the best things to put on your sex bucket list are the ones you’ve always fantasized about. But if you need some help getting started, here are 69 exciting ideas to get things moving.
- Go skinny dipping
- Have sex in the ocean
- Go to a nude beach
- Have sex at the back of your car
- Give someone a boob Job
- Get a boob Job
- Have sex in a movie theatre
- Get an oil massage
- Give an oil massage naked
- Touch your lover beneath a table
- Give someone a strip tease
- Have sex with blindfolds on
- Eat food off of each other
- Paint each other’s bodies naked
- Roleplay
- Get a lap dance
- Give a lap dance
- Have sex on the kitchen counter
- Have sex on an airplane
- Sit on someone’s face
- Make a mini porno of you and your love
- Masturbate while your partner watches
- Reenact your favourite sex scenes (books, movies etc)
- Try some BDSM ( ONLY what you are COM-FOR-TA-BLE with)
- Have sex on a washing machine
- Have some fun with ice or wax (whichever turns you on more)
- Have sex while sky diving
- Cum on each other
- Work out with someone COMPLETELY naked
- Buy, own and use a vibrator
- Use toys to spice things up with your partner
- Have sex on a balcony
- Whisper what you’d like to do to someone sexually and in graphic details
- Try a quickie (They’re not for everyone)
- Have slow, intense, passionate sex
- Try butt play (stick a finger, a toy or whatever you want up your butt hole
- Have sex in a club
- Have sex in a pool
- Have a sex marathon
- Send nudes (only if you’re comfortable)
- Watch porn with your partner
- Go to a sex party
- Have shower sex
- Get a sex swing and use it
- Have floor sex
- Have sex on the couch in the living room
- Have sex with someone you thought you’d never have sex with
- Read erotica out loud to someone
- Use a cocking on your partner
- Lick every inch of someone’s body
- Have someone lick every inch of you
- Have phone sex
- Play basic board and card games naked
- Try a sex position you’ve always been too wary to attempt
- Create a sex playlist
- Set a very romantic scene and have intense, emotional sex- (candles, rose petals, all that good stuff)
- Have sex on a yacht (or boat)
- Have really intense sex with yourself
- Try edging
- Have sex with all the lights on
- Have sex in pitch darkness
- Peg someone
- Have anal intercourse
- Do that one thing you’ve always fantasized about
- Aim for a G-Spot Orgasm
- Do it in the closet
- Experiment with your A Spot
- Have sex without making a single sound
- Try 69