The average woman does not orgasm during sex. As a matter of fact, scientists have observed in multiple studies, across several decades, that “60 to 80 percent of women do not orgasm during sex and 10% of them will never orgasm at all in their lifetime”. It’s quite shocking considering how frequently men cum orgasm on the daily.
The important thing to understand with female orgasms is that there are numerous ways to get there. While some women can experience orgasm through vaginal penetration alone, others require clitoral stimulation as well. Because of this, it is very important for you and your partner to understand the woman’s body because what works for one woman may not work for another.
Research shows that people who have sexual intercourse at least once a week are 44% likely to be happier than those who don’t. But having an incredible sex life involves effort and practice. So spend time engaging with your body and trying out different positions with your partner to figure out what works.
According to medical experts and sex therapists, these five sex positions are some of the best for achieving female orgasms.
The Standing Dancer
The standing sex position may be a little difficult to achieve because it requires a certain level of strength and athleticism, however, when done correctly, it allows for a deeper degree of penetration, as well as, clitoral simulation.
How To Do It:
While standing, (preferably against the wall for support) the female partner should raise or wrap her legs around the male partner’s waist. If you’re feeling funky, you can raise your legs even further up towards his shoulders for extreme penetration. But we don’t recommend this if you’re not a gymnast.
This position would also improve intimacy between couples because of the face to face interaction and skin to skin contact. To intensify pleasure even further, the man can keep his penis inside the woman’s vagina while grinding against the clitoris.
Raised Doggy Style
There are so many variations of doggy style and every one of them is great for female orgasms because of the degree of penetration it provides. Because the penis is tilted downward, the angle of this position allows the male partner to rub directly on the front wall of the vagina which is where the G-spot is located, says Lucy Rowett, a sexologist and certified intimacy coach. This position can also stimulate the nerve endings at the tip of your cervix (that is, your A spot) allowing for intense pleasure.
How To Do It:
Have the female partner stand and bend over a raised surface like the edge of the bed. The male partner should then stand behind them and penetrate the vagina in the standing position.
Sideways Straddle
The easiest way for a woman to orgasm is through clitoral stimulation and this sex position provides a great deal of opportunity for this. The angle of your partner’s thigh with this sex position should place pressure on your clitoris, allowing for a combination of penetration and clitoral stimulation that will help you achieve that orgasm faster. Don’t be ashamed to hump your partner’s thigh as much as you need to, whatever gets the job done sis.
How To Do It:
Have the male partner lie down while the woman climbs on top. Her legs should be placed in a scissored position with one of his knees between hers.
Reverse Missionary
No one knows the female body more than the woman herself, the reverse missionary position, gives the woman complete control over how she’s penetrated as well as the intensity of pleasure given. The friction between the clitoris and the balls with this position should increase stimulation.
How To Do It:
Think of the famous missionary position but the other way round with the female on top. Straddle the man with your legs laying flat beside his. You can also raise his legs up for a complete power posture.
Reverse CowGirl
Just like the reverse missionary, the reverse cowgirl also gives the woman on top control over pace, rhythm, pleasure and depth of penetration. “The angle of this sex position is also particularly well-suited for extra G-spot stimulation which can contribute to deeper, more satisfying orgasms”, says Sari Cooper, LCSW, CST, AASECT-certified sex therapist and director of the Center for Love and Sex in NYC
How To Do It:
Have the male partner lay down on his back while the woman on top straddles him either kneeling or squatting. Her back should be turned to him.