… A Valentine’s day guide for committed couples
It’s really soothing when you know where you stand in a relationship. It’s safe, comforting, and one less emotional hassle to worry about, until, of course, Valentine day comes knocking and you have to spend your time thinking about all the unique ways to make you partner happy.
A little tip, you don’t have to spend all the money in the world to make someone feel special, and if you’ve been paying attention in your relationship, a little gesture could be all it takes to make a difference. Let’s face it, boxers and perfumes are getting a little old. So how do you show your partner that you truly care? How do you give a gift that’s worth more than money can buy.
Give Them Something They’ve Always Wanted
The most valuable gifts are the ones with meaning. Gifting your partner something they’ve always wanted (within your means of course) validates and reassures them of your stance in the relationship. It also shows that you care about the little things. It doesn’t have to be over the top. If he’s been complaining about back pain, get him a massage. If he’s been talking about replacing his wallet, get him one as a gift. Little gestures like this are very powerful and are not easily forgotten.
Write a Letter
The older your relationship gets, the easier it is for you to abandon the little things you used to do to get each other’s attention at first. It doesn’t hurt, however, to remind your partner about how you feel about them. Don’t underestimate the power of words of affirmation. Even men wan’t to be romanced a little. Take the time to express how you feel, as well as, how much they mean to you.
Give Them a Massage
You might not know this but, a nice long massage goes a long way. In some relationships, it even works wonders. We’re all adults and a lot of us are stressed as hell. We also rarely treat ourselves to the level of relaxation we deserve. This is what makes this a thoughtful, need I mention romantic, gift. You don’t have to be skilled, what counts is your intention and the fact that you are willing to try.
Surprise Them at the Office
It’s quite possible that your partner has to work on Valentines day. That sucks, but it shouldn’t stop you from doing something special for them. Order his favorite meal to his place of work or even send in some flowers. Yes men can be serenaded. Just make sure you pay ahead of delivery.
Make a Home Cooked Meal.
I never met person who didn’t like home cooked meals. Add in some candles and you’ve got a romantic atmosphere. If you live in a safe environment, you can take it outside. This simple gesture may have more meaning than dinner at a restaurant, simply because your partner can tell with every bite that that meal was prepared with love.
Recreate Your First Date
A good ole trip down memory lane is never a bad idea. Celebrate your love by recreating your first date and reminding each other how you got the sparks flying in the first place.