106 Wildly Intense Things To Say During Sex

Not everyone talks during sex. Sometimes the pleasure is so much we become temporarily incapable of speech. Other times it could be because we don’t know what to say or we’re not sure how to say what it is we want to say. Maybe it doesn’t feel natural to you or it makes you uncomfortable. Sex, in African countries and even the western world, is, for the most part,  a taboo subject, so it is completely normal to be uncomfortable when voicing your sexual needs. 

“In general, talking about sex, our desires, and what turns us on and off is not normalized in our culture. We live in a complicated state of shame when it comes to sex, and it follows that talking about it is complicated” says Dr Sandi Kaufman, LCSW, CST. 

“People are vulnerable and afraid of saying the wrong thing when it comes to dirty talk. It can be deeply revealing. There is fear of being judged, which leads to uncertainty and anxiety regarding what’s a turn-on or turn-off. This fear and vulnerability prevents freedom of expression.”

Despite all these reservations you may still want to talk dirty to your partner. Maybe because dirty talk turns you on, because you want to spice things up in the bedroom or maybe you know your partner likes it and you’re willing to be that vulnerable for them. Here’s a tip, lean into them and whisper in their ear.

“Whispering makes everything sound way sexier,” says sexologist Megan Stubbs, Ed.D. This way you don’t have to look at them and you can barely hear yourself. I can guarantee that, not only will you turn your partner on but, you just might do the same for yourself too.

Here’s another tip; “fake it till you make it”. By this, I mean fake the confidence you would need to do this until it becomes natural. Confidence is sexy AF. It turns your partner on which can, in turn, turn you on. There are limitless possibilities with this. If you need a push, you can picture your most alluring sex icon then try to embody their energy. What’s important is that you can get comfortable in the role you are essentially playing. “When you feel sexy and empowered and are being creative in your words and imagination, you are more likely to feel comfortable trying new things, asking for what you want, and feeling comfortable with your sexuality,” says Dr Rachel Needle, a licensed psychologist in West Palm Beach, Florida and the Co-Director of Modern Sex Therapy Institutes.

With those tips in mind, here are some wildly intense things to say to your lover during sex.

What To Say During Sex

1. Oh my god!
2. Fuck!
3. You feel so good.
4. I want you now! 
5. You like that? 
6. I want you to ___
7. Fuck me daddy!!
8. Whose pussy is this? 
9. I’m so ready for you!
10. Whatever you do, don’t stop.
11. I’ve been waiting for this ALL DAY!!
12. I need you inside me NOW!!
13. Go deeper, faster, harder!
14. Cum for me. 
15. I love the way your dick tastes in my mouth.
16. I want your fingers inside me. 
17. Do you like when I spank you? 
18. Does that feel good? 
19. Tell me what you want. 
20. You make me so wet. 
21. Tell me when you’re about to cum.
22. Fuck me harder!
23. I want to make you cum. 
24. I want you to kiss every inch of my body. 
25. Tease me and don’t stop until I’m on my knees begging. 
26. I want to taste you. 
27. I’m crazy for you. 
28. More!
29. Right there. Keep going. Just like that.
30. Lick me. 
31. Pound me. 
32. I can feel your dick throbbing. 
33. I love to hold your dick while it gets hard.
34. Cum on my ass.
35. Touch yourself. Let me watch.
36. I want you in my mouth. 
37. I love the way you smell.
38. Can you take me from behind? 
39. “Insert your partner’s name.”
40. I’m so turned on!
41. Can I touch myself? 
42. I need to feel you against me. 
43. I want your mouth on me. 
44. I want you between my thighs! 
45. I’m dripping. 
46. Hold me. 
47. Pull my hair.
48. Bite me! 
49. Tell me what you want to do to me. 
50. Say my name! 
51. Play with my clit. 
52. Get over here!
53. I love your body. 
54. You feel amazing. 
55. I love it when you touch me there. 
56. I love it when you moan in my ear. 
57. Please! 
58. Louder!
59. I love the way you fill me up. 
60. You make me want to scream.
61. I can’t get enough of you. 
62. I want you!
63. Nobody turns me on like you do!
64. I could have an orgasm just looking at that face you make. 
65. I can cum from your moans alone.
66. I’ve been thinking about that dick of yours all-day. 
67. I love being your little slut.
68. I’m your little sex slave. What do you want me to do? 
69. I like it when you order me around.
70. Punish me! 
71. Disrespect me! 
72. How are you doing that? 
73. Spit in my mouth! 
74. Slap me! 
75. Choke me! 
76. Lick that fucking pussy! 
77. I want you to cover me with cum!
78. Fuck me so hard I can’t walk tomorrow!
79. Fuck, I love you.
80. Yes!
81. Ahhhh!
82. You look so hot in that position. 
83. Thank you. 
84. I don’t want this to end. 
85. Do whatever you want to me. 
86. I love the way you smell.
87. We fit so well together. 
88. Sit on my face! 
89. Bend me over! 
90. Your tongue, my clit, NOW!
91. Watch me cum!
92. I can feel your clit throbbing. 
93. There’s a lot of heat down there.
94. Put that dick in my ass!
95. Your ass looks lonely without my hands on it 
96. Do you know how much I want you? 
97. I want you exposed and bare for me. 
98. I want you happy and naked.
99. You make so fucking horny!
100. Cum in my mouth!
101. Fuck my face! 
102. Eat my pussy! 
103. You’re so sexy.
104. Anytime I look at that ass, I just want to smack it.
105. Suck on my pussy while you shove those fingers inside of me. 
106. Take me. Now!