One of drawback of online dating is people, rushing into relationships and ending them just as fast as they started. Studies show that millennials of today are less likely to honestly commit to a relationship. We all know who to blame for that; the “swipe right” proponents. While the idea of creating a shopping list for your ideal partner seems fascinating, there is always the unavoidable complication of indecisiveness. What do you do with your supposedly ideal partner when you can’t nag the thought that an even better option could be a swipe away. If you’ve found yourself treading a similar path of recent, here are 6 red flags that indicate you’re rushing into a relationship.
You Recently Broke Up With Your Ex
Thousands of books and movies have been dedicated to the rebound relationship turning into true love. The chances of that happening in real life are low. If you’ve just gotten out of a relationship and are already rushing into another one, odds are this is a rebound. You’re just trying to escape the feelings you still haven’t worked through.
You’re Doing It To Prove Your Love
Think back to how you both decided you wanted to turn your relationship into a committed one? Was is truly mutual? Or did one of you demand the other’s commitment as
You’re Doing It For Practical Reasons
So you met someone you like more than the other people you’ve dated, you barely know them but you guys decided it would be fun to get a place together to save on rent. Any committed relationship you get into telling yourself that it’ll work out fine, will most probably not end well. This is an important sign that you’re rushing into a relationship.
You Constantly Find Out New Things About Them
You’d know you’re rushing into a relationship if things begin to feel… well… rushed. Getting to know your partner has its own joy but you shouldn’t be finding out what their middle name is after you’ve moved in with them. If you’re going to share a life or even a home with someone it is important to know the bits and pieces that make them who they are. Take your time to know each other, take it slow.
You Find Yourself Talking Up Your Relationship
The next time you’re talking about your relationship with your friends, take note of how you speak about it. Are you comfortable talking about it or do you constantly try to make it sound better than it actually is? If you do, it might be an indication that subconsciously, you’re not a hundred percent happy with where your relationship is at the moment.
You’re Still Not Comfortable Around Them
You may be rushing into a relationship if you still don’t feel comfortable being yourself around your significant other. Do you still worry about having bad morning breath around your partner? This could be a red flag. In any solid relationship, you should feel comfortable enough to truly be yourself. You should be able to act exactly how you would when you’re home alone. We’re not saying you should go around farting as your life depends on it. Please, dears.
If you feel like these points describe your current relationship, then it might be time to work out certain things. The most important thing is to talk to your partner, get their view on this. Remember relationships are a marathon, not a race – it’s best to take it slow.