The ‘pick me girl’ is exactly that; a girl who wants to be picked…by men. They intentionally try to show that they’re not like “other women” and go out of their way to diss traditionally feminine things and most women’s issues. They create in themselves the image of the type of girl most men want.
Signs You’re A Pick-Me Girl
It’s easy enough to spot a pick-me girl. She’s usually surrounded by men, tending to their needs or doing her best to come off as the perfect ‘wife’ material for them.
You Claim You’re Not ‘Like Other Girls”
No two people are the same but this is usually said in a superior and demeaning way. It makes it seem like there’s something wrong or less desirable with “other girls”.
You Judge, And Go As Far As Shaming Other Women For Decisions They Make
Be it their clothes, who they date, what they eat or don’t eat, the activism they engage in. If it slightly upsets men in any way or form or if it deviates from the perfect image of a woman that men have created, you judge and actively try to put these women down.
You Defend ALL Men No Matter The Situation
Even if you hear that a woman was raped or molested the first thing you ask is, ‘what was she wearing?’, ‘what did she do?’, implying that anything that happened, the woman must have caused it and the man is not to be blamed in any way.
You Do Everything In Your Power To Fit The ‘Perfect Girlfriend Or Wife’ Image.
You dress the way a man would approve of. You do your best to come off as “low maintenance”, you’re a “natural” woman who uses little to no make-up.
You Are Only Friends With Guys
You claim you can’t be friends with women and that all your closest people are men. Usually, this is fine but if you actively go out of your way to eclipse yourself from women and practically throw yourself at men in the guise of friendship, sis👀, you have a problem.